hi there

Jun. 21st, 2017 09:48 pm
ayebydan: by <user name="sylveon"> (ivysaur)
[personal profile] ayebydan in [community profile] transandnonbinary

Hi there.

I'm Sam and I am nonbinary, afab. I have never really felt like I have belonged in a community like this and I hope that will change. I respond to female pronouns mostly because I don't live in a position where many would respect any others. Given I don't find female pronouns especially triggering I just kind of...live with it? Many friends simply use my name in place of pronouns and I like that.

I don't find my birth name triggering either most of the time; I just don't feel connected to it. If I hear 'Samantha' it simply does not register that someone is talking to me. However if I heard it and know I am being addressed I do find it jarring and uncomfortable. I feel like calling it triggering would be disrespectful to others who struggle far more hearing their dead names. I am privileged that the my birth name has a gender-neutral shortened version and society often immediately asks me 'do you prefer being called something else'?, usually meaning Sammy or Sam and I can then use my preferred name.

I guess for a long time I have felt caught between two worlds. Even as a non-binary person I have been accused of not being non-binary enough because of the things I have mentioned. I just want to find a place that accepts me for who I am I guess and I hope that place is here.

Challenge #21: Mint

Jun. 21st, 2017 10:20 am
miss_s_b: (Fangirling: Arachnia Janeway)
[personal profile] miss_s_b in [community profile] weekly_food_challenge
You may or may not have noticed we had a general election here in the UK, swiftly followed by the leader of my party resigning and lots of associated fallout. So non-politics things kind of fell by the wayside a bit.

Anyway, I'm still alive (just about) and I thought I ought to get back on the challenge posting horse. And my mint plants have gone BONKERS in the weather we've had here the last few days, hence, this week's challenge is: mint. Fresh mint, mint essence, mint sweeties, whatever form of minty thing you'd like to do.
liadtbunny: (Blake seat driver)
[personal profile] liadtbunny in [community profile] blakes7

[community profile] unconventionalcourtship a panfandom fic fest where you write and post a 1000w+ fic based on a M&B/Harlequin plot is open for sign ups! Fics will be posted to the UC community, staggered through August and September 2017, from 18th August.
diybinding: A photo of a half-finished binder. (Default)
[personal profile] diybinding in [community profile] diybinder
A few months ago I threw together a tutorial on how I sew binders (of the non-tanktop variety. For the tanktops see this post). The folks who were around on Imzy have seen it already.

I finally managed to upload that tutorial somewhere else after the old hosting site disappeared. So here you go!

At some point I'll even manage to take pictures while making a binder and update the tutorial...hopefully.


kindkit: A late-Victorian futuristic zeppelin. (Default)

June 2017

     12 3
4 5 6 7 8 910
11 1213 14 1516 17
18 192021 2223 24

Most Popular Tags

Style Credit

Expand Cut Tags

No cut tags
Page generated Jun. 26th, 2017 10:23 am
Powered by Dreamwidth Studios