the right line between being supportive and not being spoiler-y

Exactly the right line, thank you! My particular combination of story-anxiety and spoiler-aversion isn't easy to navigate, for me or for people innocently trying to bring me into fandoms.

I am REALLY PROUD of maintaining my virtual poker face when you said that

*laughs* It must have been tempting. Especially since at the time, I considered the other scenario--that Jon is eaten by the Stranger--more likely.