There's nothing wrong with having tastes, either; it's not immoral to have preferences! I am totally with you about being in fandom for subversive stories too, absolutely, which is probably why almost all the het I write has dominant women and submissive men. I had to sort of go through slash and femslash to find a place where I can write and read het romances/smut fics that actually speak to me, instead of being the same trite obligatory-heteronormative-boring-romance type you generally get in media. My stuff's still 90% slash or femslash... *checks* Current lineup actually 33 m/m, 2o f/f, 15 het and 8 mixed moresomes, apparently, so okay, I overstated that, haha. 82.62%, and that's not counting the same-sex stuff in those mixed moresomes.