something queer going on

I would so go for this. Makes me think of how when I went to Finland, the home of sauna, as a trans man I didn't have the guts to try one because they are sex-segregated and even towels are not generally used. Even though from what I've learned of the Finns; they would have ignored anything "untoward" they noticed. But yeah, swimming. Just feeling that I belonged in that atmosphere.